How to get cooperation

Don’t push your ideas down other peoples’ throats, make it theirs

Techniques

Fair Trade

  • “What do you expect from me”
  • -> “What can I expect from you”

Ask for advice

  • let the other person make decisions based on your foundation
    • “I built this, how can I improve it so that it is useful for you?”

Quote

The reason rivers and seas receive the homage of a hundred mountain streams is that they keep below them. Thus they are able to reign over all the mountain streams. So the sage, wishing to be above men, putteth himself below them; wishing to be before them, he putteth himself behind them. Thus, though his place be above men, they do not feel his weight; though his place be before them, they do not count it an injury.